Emotional Divorce


Divorce can be an extremely painful process.  Feelings of hurt, rejection, betrayal, guilt, shame, bitterness and failure can be intense and sometimes overwhelming.  This is just as true for many “break ups” - they can be just as hard.

In cases like this, my goal is to help my clients achieve an “emotional divorce”, meaning they are no longer tied to their ex-partner emotionally.

Imagine no longer thinking compulsively about your ex.  No longer being triggered, even by deliberately hurtful behaviors.  Imagine not feeling much of anything about them. 

I realize that this may seem impossible—especially if you are really suffering right now.  But with EFT an emotional divorce can often be accomplished in a matter of weeks. 

Misery and compulsive thinking are replaced by detachment, calm, clarity and inner peace. Achieving this level of emotional freedom is key to starting over on a much higher level.  Old dysfunctional patterns, limiting beliefs and negative self-concepts are left by the wayside.

Whatever is next for you—a new relationship, investing in your career, caring for your kids, or just being very comfortable being on your own in a new life—letting go of your divorce trauma is an incredibly important investment. 

"The ending and loss of a relationship with someone we love is probably one of the most painful experiences we must endure as human beings.  When I was recently faced with this devastation I was hardly able to function, spontaneously crying in public, feeling excruciating pain and grief and guilt and shame and fear, you name it.  I had worked with EFT somewhat prior to working with Rob but I felt I needed a professional to help me. 

When I first entered Rob's office I started crying uncontrollably and we immediately went to work.  By the time I left his office an hour later I was laughing and felt filled with relief and gratitude, I was as light as a feather and this feeling remained with me long after our session. 

Rob is a highly gifted, skilled and compassionate healer.  I immediately recommended him to a friend of mine who  was also dealing with a breakup and she felt the exact same kind of relief as I did.  If you are going through the terrible pain of a breakup, do yourself a favor and see Rob.  You will be convinced within an hour."


If you’d like to “get over it and get on with it”, call me today for a free 20-minute phone consultation.